Remembering

It may have been one of the saddest days of my life, but it was also one of the most beautiful things I have ever experienced. It was his time. The fight was over. He was tired. Surrounded by family, we told him how much we loved him. We prayed over him. We told him it was okay to go. With all of our hands on him, we told him we loved him. We watched him take his last breath. We cried together as we said goodbye. This man was one of the best men I’ve ever known. The best […]

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Make your bed

It is a simple task – making your bed. It’s one of the first things you should do everyday. One accomplishment down – now let’s tackle the day. When I am reading a good book, I love to write in it and sometimes take notes. This may be a little weird but it works for me. If I am reading something really good or insightful, I love to share it. Admiral William H. McRaven wrote Make Your Bed – Little Things That Can Change Your Life… And Maybe the World after giving a commencement speech at the University of Texas […]

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Silence

There are many times in life, it is best to be silent. That rule our mothers taught us — if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all — has stuck with me my whole life. As it has been said, silence is a virtue. Never complain. Complaining is the simplest and most ineffective thing to do. If you have the ability to change a situation, do it. If you don’t, change your viewpoint. The mind will give up and surrender before the before the body. Endurance, perseverance, and composure are also virtues. Use your inner […]

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Clutches

Clutches can add to an outfit, just like jewelry does. With the right clutch, a lady can level up her outfit and add a touch of elegance. Many women like a clutch that will match their outfit, cocktail dress or gown. With the right clutch, you can accentuate what you are wearing. A clutch can add a unique flair to a casual look or compliment the elegance of a dress or gown. While many women carry clutches for special occasions, they are often carried now on a date night or girls’ night out. A clutch is a stylish accessory and […]

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For My Boys

Over the past few weeks, many lessons have been taught in my home. So as graduation approaches and the potential for one moving out, I question – have I taught my boys enough? Have I instilled good values in them? Have I taught them to be amazing adults – smart, kind and respectful adults? This was my job as their parent. After much thought, here are most of the things I want my boys to remember. Hold the door open for people. Don’t trust everyone. Don’t not trust anyone. Be light in your heart and steady on your feet. Think […]

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